Nearly nine adults worry about two children, no one brings family name disputes-tx49.cc

Survey: nearly nine adults worry about two children with no one for a family name cited storm network report shows that two children family economic pressure, disturbing factors in parenting stress and family conflict comprehensive two child policy officially landed this year, more and more families consider the birth of the two baby. So, what kind of experience is "two treasures"? Yesterday, a two child family network survey published in Guangzhou showed that after more than one child, half of the family spending increased by less than 2000 yuan. In addition, the factors that troubled the two child family are parenting pressure, family conflicts and so on. – the new express reporter correspondent Li Chujun Zhu Yuzi nearly two children home mortgages for the two child families make investigation by Guangdong network news broadcast "two children" compulsory course, love mother breast volunteer service team and WeChat public platform "I want a second child co sponsored by the Guangdong Province Population Development Research Institute to provide guidance a total of two children, 12 thousand families involved in the investigation. The survey found that the biggest factor that troubled the two child family was not economic pressure, nearly 60% of the two children said that the two children brought economic pressure "general", or "very small"". After one child, half the family spends less than 2000 yuan, mainly for daily necessities such as food and diapers. At the same time, 65% of households said that two children spent less than 1/3 of their monthly disposable income. Breast milk volunteer service team captain Xu Liang on the activities revealed that a number of breastfeeding mothers of two children said that the average monthly consumption of two treasure only three hundred or four hundred yuan, in addition to diapers, almost no cost. However, there are still more than 70% of the two children interviewed believe that the first condition for having two children is "to be rich."". Nearly half of two children have mortgages, and 40% of two children are thinking of changing rooms or changing trains, according to the survey. That is to say, compared with the house, no two children spend little. "The child is not much of an economic burden, to say the economic burden, nothing is more important than the house."." Investigation executor Zhu Yuzi said. "Fight for family name" and "fight for support" lead to family turmoil investigation found that the two children bring the greatest pressure is actually "parenting difficulties."". More than half of the two children said, "1+1 is greater than 2."". Two child mother Chani said: "if the difficulty of raising a child is 100, the difficulty of raising two children is 100 multiplied by 100.". The problem of fairness in dealing with two children has been a bit of a puzzle." In this regard, Zhu Yuzi analysis, the two child family will have a new problem: to the eldest of two children, a mother to rob, "fight" for the name "raise" and so on, all may lead to family conflicts. For example, she said, had a two child mother in the new media platform message, talk for two family and husband who treasure with the surname problem. Home said that if the two treasure is not with her name, will daughter out of the house; and the husband also said that if the two with the family name will treasure, daughter-in-law and two treasure out of the house. Zhu Yuzi said that the majority of the families with such problems are the only daughter of her family, and she hopes her daughter will be able to regenerate herself and continue herself 5

调查:近九成人愁二孩没人带 争姓引家庭风波   一份网调报告显示,二孩家庭经济压力一般,困扰因素更在育儿压力和家庭矛盾   全面二孩政策今年正式落地,越来越多的家庭考虑生育两个宝宝。那么,“家有两宝”究竟是一种什么样的体验?昨日,一份在广州发布的二孩家庭网络调查报告显示,多生育一个孩子之后,一半家庭的花费增加2000元以内。此外,困扰二孩家庭的因素还有育儿压力、家庭矛盾等。   ■新快报记者 黎楚君 通讯员 朱昱子   近半二孩家庭背负房贷   本次针对二孩家庭所做的网络调查由广东新闻广播《二孩妈妈必修课》、母乳爱志愿服务队及微信公众平台“我要生二胎”联合发起,由广东省人口发展研究院提供指导,共1.2万个二孩家庭参与调查。调查发现,困扰二孩家庭的最大因素原来不是经济压力,近60%的二孩家庭表示,二孩带来的经济压力“一般”,或者“很小”。调查显示,多出一个孩子之后,一半家庭的花费增加2000元以内,花费主要用于购买食品和尿布等日常用品。同时,65%的家庭表示,两个孩子的花费低于家庭月平均可支配收入的三分之一。母乳爱志愿服务队队长徐靓就在活动上透露,多位母乳喂养二孩的母亲表示,二宝的月均消费仅三四百元,除了尿布之外几乎没有花费。   不过,仍然有超过70%的受访二孩家庭认为,生育两个孩子的首要条件是“要有钱”。调查数据显示,接近一半的二孩家庭背负着房贷,四成的二孩家庭正考虑换房或换车。也就是说,跟房子相比,任何二孩带来的花销都不大。“孩子本身并不是多大的经济负担,要说经济负担,没有什么比房子更重。”调查执行人朱昱子说。   “争姓”“争养”引家庭风波   调查发现,二孩带来的最大压力其实是“育儿难”。超过一半的二孩家庭表示,“1+1大于2”。二孩妈妈卓妮表示:“如果养一个孩子的难度是100的话,养两个孩子的难度就是100乘100。光处理两个孩子公平的问题就已经很伤脑筋了。”对此,朱昱子分析,二孩家庭会产生新的问题:小到老大老二争风吃醋、两个孩子睡前抢妈妈,大到出现“争姓”“争养”等情况,都可能引来家庭风波。   她举例说,曾有一位二孩妈妈在新媒体平台留言,倾诉娘家和婆家争夺二宝跟谁姓的问题。娘家称如果二宝不跟姥爷姓,就要将女儿逐出家门;而婆家也表示,如果二宝随外姓,也要将媳妇和二宝逐出家门。朱昱子表示,出现此类问题的家庭多数是娘家的独女,非常盼望女儿能再生一个延续自己的姓氏。   广东省人口发展研究院院长董玉整分析认为,全面实施二孩政策符合全社会的期盼。但要将好的政策落到实处,存在诸多现实的矛盾和困难。从社会方面来看,存在着男女性别平等、社会福利公平等问题;从单位来看,存在着人力资源配置、岗位设置安排、工作连续有序等问题;从家庭来看,存在着养育孩子与工作冲突、养育经济成本较高、养育时间分配紧张、夫妻以及家庭成员之间矛盾、孩子之间矛盾等问题。董玉整认为,依靠个人或家庭克服所有的困难力量不足,需要政府提供各方面的政策支持。   仅两成受访者愿做全职妈妈   调查显示,高达86.5%的二孩家庭将“没人带”列作要二孩的最大困难。尽管生育假已经延长,但80%的受访者表示不够。为解决二孩带来的人手负担,部分妈妈不得不辞职回家,但愿意做全职妈妈的比例仅有两成。对此,朱昱子希望社会充分保障女性的就业权,让妈妈们生育二孩后还能重返工作岗位。   值得注意的是,此次调查还显示,70%的二孩家庭将“良好的夫妻关系”列为要二孩最重要的因素。数据也显示,在已经生育二孩的家庭中,最突出的家庭矛盾是夫妻关系的紧张。朱昱子解释:“都说婚姻最困难的是生完孩子的第一年,那么有两个孩子之后,如果父亲仍旧保持对育儿不积极、不参与的态度,很容易遭遇‘婚姻最困难的第二年’。 ”相应地,父亲参与度与二孩家庭幸福度成正比。活动现场,两个小孩的妈妈李梅表示:“爸爸的角色非常重要,爸爸每天晚上都会负责给两个孩子冲凉,可以让我暂时休息一会儿,哪怕是休息半小时,也会觉得轻松很多。” 责任编辑:陈琰 SN225相关的主题文章: